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Do couples watch porn together

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Do couples watch porn together

Do couples watch porn together

Ever since the Internet made porn easily accessible to almost every person with a roof over its head, porn became more mainstream. It is not like back in the days that discussing porn would make people’s heads turn away with the roll of the eyes, nor would admitting to watching it get you shunned from your peer group. If nothing else, people nowadays are actually relieved that someone would discuss openly that, yes, they actually watch porn. It is not as big of a taboo than it was when it was all starting. Now that the paradigm has shifted, other issues are coming up and they are the focus of this topic.

What about couples who watch porn together?

What is it like? It is not a secret that some couples are introducing porn into their sex lives in order to spice it up. Just like sex toys or even dirty talk for some prunes, this is something that is new and fresh, something that is making them feel the rush and the excitement that much more. But what is it doing to their relationship?

If you ask women about this topic and then pose the same question to men, you would get some interesting answers that could be diametrically opposing to each other. Men and women do not watch porn the same way. Men watch sex, the girl, her curves, her looks, how she performs etc. Basically, they are watching the visual stimulation. On the other side of the equation, women are looking for the connection in sex, the emotional stimulation. Of course, in porn, there is next to zero of emotional connection to be found. What’s similar is that women are also watching and observing the girl, but in a whole different way. They are looking at her as a comparison to themselves. To be honest, that is one big burden to carry while watching porn. If men did that, we would have a whole civilization of insecure men roaming this planet, sobbing that their penises are not big enough.

That is the main difference how men and women perceive porn. Women are even jealous of women in porn sometimes because they are not looking as perfect as the actresses in the video. This is the first prerequisite that needs to exist in order for a couple to have the full enjoyment of watching porn together. The woman has to be secure with her looks, at least to some extent.

Porn movies are called movies for a good reason

If you don’t know by now, sex in porn is staged. It is fake! Fake like a $50 Gucci bag bought at a flea market. Porn movies are called movies for a good reason. They are recorded, edited, directed, made out of multiple takes and it takes hours to make one scene, just like a mainstream movie. But in these videos, men are lasting in bed like they are on a sex marathon. They can have sex for hours on end, in all kinds of different positions that most of us didn’t even realise were possible. Or so it seems.

It is very hard to inject logic into all of this when many men have been brainwashed with all of these scenes since they were in their early teens and it is plausible to assume that some might have developed unreasonable expectations about what sex is and what it is supposed to be like. The question about the penis size just has to be off topic since in almost every video the man has an elephant trunk for a penis. That sight alone surely must have given some men insecurities to work on. Comparing oneself to a male pornstar is as absurd as it gets. Introducing porn in the bedroom, to watch with a partner might trigger some issues, so it has to be done with both partner’s consent.

couples are using porn watching as a way to spike their already good sex

Then, there are those couples that are using porn watching as a way to spike their already good sex. Some are arguing that watching porn together might lead one of the partners astray in search for someone who is hotter or wilder in bed inspired by these unreal performers or the over the top performances on screen. To some, this argument is preposterous, since if that is in fact the case, the shallowness of the relationship should be a bigger concern than the fear of abandonment. Some couple therapists are saying that couples who do watch porn together, are more drawn to each other because they have found yet another link in their relationship that they can share and the notion of leaving the relationship drops down drastically. It is this out of the norm shared experience, that is bringing them closer together and therefore it is good for couples to engage in this kind of a sexual recreation.

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