When it comes to picking one’s favourite sex position, it is like picking a favourite movie or a favourite band. Everyone has a different taste and everyone has their own comfortable position that is just hitting the spot the right way, the way that it needs to be hit. But, since there are millions of movies and millions of bands to choose from, there are only a few positions that can be performed in bed. We are limited by our bodies, space and flexibility so we are left with just a few positions to choose from. We can all try out the Kamasutra and discover some new amazing and unbelievable ways of lovemaking, but for the most part, most of us will stick to the basics.
This list was based on all of the testimonials that men and women have given over the years, basically since the first survey on this topic was ever introduced. We gathered all of the testimonials, analyzed the info and made our conclusions. Here’s what the data has to say.
His favourite sex positions
Coming in at number 3, it is the missionary position! Yes, this might sound like the most boring one of them all and the most common one, but that is probably why it is ranking in at number three. It is just the stereotype of the position that might make it seem as if it is a boring one, but it is a position where men can have all of the maneuverability that is required for them to orgasm at their own pace. This plays a major role, the control, since in the missionary position the man is the one who dictates the pace. The woman just has to spread her legs and welcome all the glory that is coming her way.
At number two – the cowgirl position! This is a position where the woman straddles her man, assumes the position in the driving seat, faces up her man and controls the whole ride. It is reported by men that they love it due to the fact that she is the one who is controlling the pace and the rhythm, so they can enjoy the view and the arousal in the woman’s face. Also, breasts are right in their faces, so sucking of the nipples is easier and there can be manual stimulation of the vagina too when needed.
And now, the number one favourite position as admitted by men – the doggystyle! Yes, it wasn’t that hard to assume that this one would land in at number one. As reported by men, the view is great, there’s total control of the pace and if the urge arises, breasts can be fondled also as well as the clitoris. The penetration is deeper and it feels primal. There is something intense and raw about this position more than any other position that’s possible. Also, the stimulation of the G spot is greater, so it’s a mutually pleasurable position.
Her favourite sex positions
The number three fav position for women is – the cowgirl position! They love it for the control, the same reason as men do, but they have the ability to control the angle of the penetration. They love to wrap their legs around the man and give him a powerful ride. It is all about the power and the control that they have over the man. Plus, the depth of the penetration can be controlled and they can look in the man’s eyes, as they are having sex, for that emotional connection.
The number two position is – the missionary position. Back to basics. Ladies are fans of this position purely because of the fact that they are the ones who are on their backs, they are just laying there, enjoying the ride and the man is the one who is doing all of the work. If they want, they can have some kind of control, but it is that thrill of letting it go and becoming the sexual object that is making this position so pleasing to their senses. Also, if the man uses his arms to pin her to her back, that’s the ultimate act of submission, the way it’s supposed to be.
For the favourite position, women voted – the doggystyle. Same as men, they are loving this position since it is so animalistic and primal. They say that they love to lose control, just as much as they love having it, but there is something intimate in trusting the guy to do whatever he pleases. The whole “ass up, face down” position is very vulnerable to a woman and this is why it is making the doggy such a hot position to have sex in. At the end, men’s and women’s sex position preferences are not that different after all.